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Apr 10, 2008 15:33:43 GMT -5
Post by sam on Apr 10, 2008 15:33:43 GMT -5
Thank you, Jordon. I have had many problems like that so i use it from past experience lol heehee.. And i thought your advice was really good too.
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Apr 10, 2008 20:19:17 GMT -5
Post by jane on Apr 10, 2008 20:19:17 GMT -5
Yes, so it is.
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Apr 10, 2008 20:29:59 GMT -5
Post by volvolover on Apr 10, 2008 20:29:59 GMT -5
I know I keep coming here to ask for help but, my life has taken a down ward turn. The newest bad thing to happen in my life is one of my friends dad passed away tuesday. I just got back from the wake and it was so acward i had no idea what to say and I've never been that way with her I always knew what to say and when to say it but, now I don't. And all I what to do is confort her and just let her be normal too. Ugg life is so confussing!!!!
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Apr 11, 2008 0:35:57 GMT -5
Post by sam on Apr 11, 2008 0:35:57 GMT -5
Aww I am so sorry for your friends loss... If I was you just let your friend know your there for her. Tell her that you are so sorry for her loss and I would give her a hug and like you said comfort her. That's really tough. I mean its going to be hard on your friend so you just gotta be there to help her get through this. I personally would try to spend time with her and let her vent to you if needed. That's all I can say I am not too good in situations like that either...
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Apr 11, 2008 15:11:18 GMT -5
Post by jane on Apr 11, 2008 15:11:18 GMT -5
I second what sam said. Just be patient with her for a while.
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Apr 12, 2008 20:53:07 GMT -5
Post by volvolover on Apr 12, 2008 20:53:07 GMT -5
Thanks you guys for the advise(:
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Apr 13, 2008 0:26:56 GMT -5
Post by sam on Apr 13, 2008 0:26:56 GMT -5
Welcome, volvolover
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Apr 16, 2008 17:09:34 GMT -5
Post by jane on Apr 16, 2008 17:09:34 GMT -5
Hmm. Does anyone else have anything they wish to post/type about?
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Apr 17, 2008 23:33:00 GMT -5
Post by volvolover on Apr 17, 2008 23:33:00 GMT -5
Ya anyone have any idea how to make a person who can't dace look cool while wearing gym clothes and dacing with a group of 6 in forount of your whole grade?? If not i will survive somehow so when you read this feel free to laugh . trust me I did when I found out from the gym teachers(crazy loons) what our 4th quarter assiment was. rather hystericly but I laughed all the same.
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Apr 18, 2008 10:08:33 GMT -5
Post by jane on Apr 18, 2008 10:08:33 GMT -5
Hmmm, try to flow, or something. ((Warning: This is going to sound incredibly lame. Read at your own risk)) Try to listen to the music, feel it (how cliche), and imagine yourself dancing. Then dance like that. Or, if there is no music, think of your favorite song and then do those steps.((All right, the lame part is over. Feel free to continue reading at no risk whatsoever)) I did not laugh, BTW. I don't find it funny.
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Apr 18, 2008 18:41:47 GMT -5
Post by sam on Apr 18, 2008 18:41:47 GMT -5
Alrighty then...yeah listen to Janes lameness lol.
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Apr 19, 2008 16:58:39 GMT -5
Post by jane on Apr 19, 2008 16:58:39 GMT -5
Heehee am I supposed to say "thank you" or shun you? *makes descision* Thanks Sam, I guess, for supporting my idea.
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Apr 20, 2008 19:34:18 GMT -5
Post by ForgottenRose_13 on Apr 20, 2008 19:34:18 GMT -5
Okay, so I started to talk to this guy while we were both working on our school play. We became friends. And I began to really really like him, but there were multiple problems, some I didn't even realize at the time. First of all, my dad doesn't let me date. I was content with this rule until very recently. Second, I have some severe self esteem issues. Third, his friendship is important to me. I created a plan. I would wait til my junior year and then I would tell him how I felt. By that point it would be easier to talk my dad around.
But then there was the problem I hadn't even realized. If I had been paying attention, I would have heard about it before. You see, he was moving. At least 5 hours away.
I ran through several options. The first was that I could tell him. That could have two possible outcomes. If he didn't like me like I like him it could ruin our friendship. It would be even worse if he did like me. It would make his leaving harder for both of us, especially him. I would be just one more thing he'd have to leave behind.
The other option is that I could keep it to myself. I really am happy as being friends. I'm planning to keep in touch with him when he leaves. I could be a good friend.
I'm leaning towards option two, but I can't help mourning for what I might have had. I still don't know if I'm making the right choice, and I just really need to talk to someone about it. I usually hide a lot of my emotions from my friends, but I just need some support.
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Apr 21, 2008 11:23:57 GMT -5
Post by sam on Apr 21, 2008 11:23:57 GMT -5
Well i understand when you say you hide a lot of emotions from your friends because i kinda do too. well if i was you i would jus be really good friends. i mean you could tell him you like him but it wouldnt make any sense because then what would happen...all that probably would happen would be nothing because what are you going to do when hes waaaay over there and your waaay over here, you see. so i would stick to staying good friends and keeping in touch. I am in the same problem you are in except the boy i like isnt moving, but i decided not to say anything...but thats my advice, i hope its good.
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Apr 21, 2008 12:38:28 GMT -5
Post by rosalie on Apr 21, 2008 12:38:28 GMT -5
Quite good. Now, what should you do if someone you practically despise likes you?
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