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Apr 28, 2007 11:58:53 GMT -5
Post by Dazzle on Apr 28, 2007 11:58:53 GMT -5
Has something bad happened to you or you need some comfort? Post here
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May 4, 2007 15:35:21 GMT -5
Post by ecullen730 on May 4, 2007 15:35:21 GMT -5
I think I need some hugs. OK. Here goes. So about two, three years ago, my sister and I were playing around and she jumped on my back. I was fine, but as soon as I started track this year, my back started to hurt. Turns out it's totally screwed up so I had to give up track and I can't do cheerleading with my friend, just because of my back. So that's the first thing. Now the second thing. I love my best friend, Jordan. She's the best. We have so much in common and we tell eachother everything. Well for the past few days she's been down. I asked her what the matter was and she hates herself. She didn't do anything, but she's made at herself for something. Something because of our "friend" Renee. In her away message, she put I'm just mad at some people right now. I was like Jordan we don't need her. She's just being a total be-yotch. Some of the conversation we had is not appropriate for this due to the swears. So now I'm pissed at Renee, Jordan is sad, and it's just making me angry and mad at _______ Renee. Now the third thing. You know how you feel if, like, you let someone down, you think that they'll never talk to you again? Well that's how I feel. I've been doing dance for eight years and this year I wanted to do cheerleading with Jordan. So I asked my mom. She made me feel bad saying that I'd have to quit dance. So I had to think REALLY hard about it. She talked to me and said it was fine with her, only if everybody, like if my dad says yes to driving me to games and stuff like that. I decided to not to Popwarner and when I told Jordan, I felt bad. Just letting her down like that. She's upset, not in a good mood, because of that too. Sorry. Last thing. People keep on talking about their families. And I keep on thinking about how I don't know my family. I was adopted from Montana, so when people ask me about my family, I say I don't know. I don't know them. I know I could talk about my adopted family, but that just makes it worse for me. So I asked my mom about my MOM and she said that I looked like her. She said that she sends pictures of me every year to my MOM, but my MOM never responds. That just hurt. My mom said that I could go to visit her when I'm 15. Then it was 16. Now it's 18. She's just like I don't want you to get hurt. She said, I read about this girl who was adopted from Japan, and when she met her real family, they expected her to work and get money for the family. I yelled at her and said, THAT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN! I don't know. My lifes just screwed up.
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May 4, 2007 16:31:29 GMT -5
Post by Dazzle on May 4, 2007 16:31:29 GMT -5
*jumbo hug* Aww... I hope everything goes well and everything gets sorted out *hugs again*
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May 4, 2007 16:59:23 GMT -5
Post by iluvedward on May 4, 2007 16:59:23 GMT -5
*Hugs* I know how you feel.
I have a 17-year-old pot head brother. I found out my friend was gay, which I have expected, because it makes her happy. I'm teased everyday because I want to be different! Every day like heck, because I have daitbetes.
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May 4, 2007 21:02:14 GMT -5
Post by ecullen730 on May 4, 2007 21:02:14 GMT -5
OMG. That's terrible. I can't believe how some people can act so foolish. **JUMBO HUGS**
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May 5, 2007 20:33:23 GMT -5
Post by iluvedward on May 5, 2007 20:33:23 GMT -5
yet this site helps me easies my stress
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May 17, 2007 20:45:39 GMT -5
Post by zinthafan on May 17, 2007 20:45:39 GMT -5
This is a pretty good topic. The best way for a lot of people to find help though, like besides consulting other people, is through religion- since well, most people have one and a lot of people can find sanctity through that- meditation sports (due to concentration levels for these)
And while a lot of us on here can give you support, and help you, you move on yourself- without anyone's help. All we can do is give you guys a nudge.
Lol. I think this response is the only one I could think of well, ha ha, due to the fact I don't hug!
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Jun 12, 2007 15:53:15 GMT -5
Post by alexa on Jun 12, 2007 15:53:15 GMT -5
lol well i give hugs to all of you and well, i have a sad story as well but it's not to depressing as some may say. but it bothers me most of the time first my grandmother lives with us and she s always is so mean to my father. she has a disease (dementia) and she "believes" that my dad is cheating on my mother. B4 i actually believed her, until my mom finally told me that it wasnt true, when i gave the courage to tell her what i know about my dad. my dad and mom both have amazing anger problems, theyre not abusive or anythinng, but they stilll make me feel like nuts; they both put sooo much pressure on me for being the best always; and they get angry at a 4-! its so hard to please. and theyre always bugging me about my weight. b4 i was just skins and bones and now i gained a bit and they attack me about it. There is no way fo us too be all happy at once. something always goes wrong. and they just dont get. For worse, my mom always says that my dad would probably cheat on her and when i asked if she would cheat on him she said : "i dont think so" the only reason theyre still together is bc of me so i feel like im the problem and that maybe i should just dissapear, i think we would all be happy if they got a divorce
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Jun 12, 2007 20:11:38 GMT -5
Post by teeksz on Jun 12, 2007 20:11:38 GMT -5
ahww *hug* i no wat it feels like to be a problem with parents iunno but i hope everytin get better for you i truley dooo .. uh mine isnt really a problem its like i have 2 brothers 1 older and 1 younger my rents are divorce for about 6 yrs or soo .. but my dad still has trouble with it but now i see bc i look more n more like my mom n act like her .. he treats me like i am nothin' .. he treats my brothers like they are God gift to the world n me like shiet .. he once told me to walk my bum home from a different town .. but i got a drive bak to my moms place anyways .. but its not like i hate him its just like he would call my brothers to find out what up and do they want anything .. n doesnt take the time to even call me up .. iunno but i struggle with that .. its hard to get through yur day when yu feel like yur dad thinks yur crap and nothing at all to himm ...
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Jun 12, 2007 20:28:42 GMT -5
Post by alexa on Jun 12, 2007 20:28:42 GMT -5
I know they love me but they dont love each other you know?
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Jun 12, 2007 21:00:01 GMT -5
Post by teeksz on Jun 12, 2007 21:00:01 GMT -5
ye i truley understand ...but in a way i cant say it will pass bc honestly from my experince it didnt .. but yurs is a different situation .. yu should suggest honestly tellin them wat they are doing to you and to you as a family ..yur not the problem soo honest dont ever think that bc its not your fault at all .... be strong honestly all of us are here for you for moral support ..
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Jun 13, 2007 15:06:10 GMT -5
Post by alexa on Jun 13, 2007 15:06:10 GMT -5
well im just confused about what they want and what i want maybe i do want them to divorce, if it will make us all happy :S im confuzzled
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Jun 14, 2007 20:14:04 GMT -5
Post by teeksz on Jun 14, 2007 20:14:04 GMT -5
dont worry * hug* ... i was confused too .. i guess its just time will tell ..
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Aug 15, 2007 21:43:31 GMT -5
Post by Cindy on Aug 15, 2007 21:43:31 GMT -5
I am sure evrything will turn out okay. *hugs everyone*
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Aug 16, 2007 8:54:56 GMT -5
Post by Dazzle on Aug 16, 2007 8:54:56 GMT -5
*Group hug!*
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